My
sweet darling, you turned two years old yesterday. We have had a wonderful
month together, but before I tell you about all the things you did, I want to
take a moment and tell you about all the things you ARE.
You
are focused. You have been known to stay on a task that interests you for up to
20 or 30 minutes. When you want to accomplish something, you are very good at
trying again and again until you either get it right or are willing to ask for
help. You can be very good at entertaining yourself.
You
are sweet. You tuck your cars into a little bed every night and for every nap
(it’s a little box I covered in wrapping paper, with a washcloth
“blanket”), and you do it so lovingly that it warms my heart. You
get three bedtime kisses from Daddy, and after you get them, you insist he
gives Mommy a kiss, too.
You
are silly. There’s very little that you enjoy more than a fit of the
sillies. Whether you are laughing hysterically as you run back and forth down a
hallway, giggling maniacally as you balance a plate on your head, or sticking your arms through Daddy's t-shirt armholes and squealing in glee when your hands meet at the neck hole, you have a
great silly sense of humour that is so much fun to watch.
You
are a great listener. You can be playing away on your own while I read you a
bedtime story, but if it has cues to which you like responding, you’ll
catch them and do whatever action you’re supposed to do. If we are
casually humming a song that you know, you’ll likely recognize it and ask
to hear it. You are always listening.
You
are communicative. Your words are coming fast and furious and your vocabulary
is increasing daily, but even when you don’t have the words, you can
almost always make your point known. It makes like so much easier. You’re
a great communicator, Moe, and that makes us very happy.
You
are gentle. Whether it’s stroking my hair, Zaphod’s fur, or a
stuffed animal’s face, you can be exceptionally gentle and loving.
You
are excitable. If you get wound up, it can be hard to calm you down! And when
you get too excited, toys start flying, stuff gets chucked off tables, and you
scream like an excited banshee. (The screaming is a sign that you want to take
things up a notch and get the party started!)
You
are methodical. You eat methodically, you play methodically. You like to do
things in your own sweet time, and you want to do them thoroughly. You like to
figure out how things work. Mealtimes aren’t quick, and it can be hard to
move you from one task to another, but I think this will serve you well in the
long run.
You
are wonderful. Daddy and I try and get out for a date night every couple of
weeks, and when we do, our conversation inevitably turns to all the great
things you do that make us laugh and smile. You are an amazing combination of
brave and cautious, of zany and focused, of silly and serious. Most of all, you
are so much fun.
This
month has been wonderful. You had your first bubble bath, and you loved it. We
have now declared Saturday night to be bubble bath night, and it’s a
wonderful tradition. You do pretty well on Saturdays, actually. We generally go
for a long walk outside with Uncle Mark and Aunt Janine, and that means that we
warm up at home with cocoa. You sometimes even get to have breakfast in the
living room while watching TV on Saturdays. We like to make our weekend time
with you as special as we can.
One
way we do that is by visiting museums. Thanks to your grandmothers, we now have
a membership at the Canadian Museum of Nature and at the Canada Science and
Technology Museum (which also includes the Agriculture Museum and the Aviation
and Aerospace Museum). Between Nature and Science & Tech, we get to
museums a few times every month. At the Canadian Museum of Nature, you love the
dinosaurs, playing in the coast guard boat kitchen in the Water Gallery, seeing
the huge turtle and scanning the bear’s groceries. At Science and Tech,
the snowmobile is always a hit, and you love the Braille exhibit.
I
tried signing you up for Toddler Time at the Library on Monday mornings.
It’s basically a circle time at the library, with songs and activities.
You would much rather explore on your own. When Granny took you a few weeks
ago, you preferred to spend your time learning how to use the mouse on the
library computer. I figure our time is better spent at a museum where you can
chart your own course – you get enough circle time at playgroup when you
go with Robin. She tells me you’re getting pretty good at following along
and singing the songs and doing all the proper circle time things. I think
I’d rather spend weekends exploring with you.
I
also love to hear you chat, even though your favourite words this month have
been “no” and “ow”. (You have a tendency to use both of
those inappropriately.) Sometimes your words are super clear, like when I asked
you what crayon you wanted to use and you said, clear as day,
“PURPLE!” and picked up the purple crayon. Other times, it’s
hard to know what you’re saying, like the day you said
“potty”, “party”, and “body” and I
wasn’t sure which one you meant at any given time. In fact, it took us a
while to figure out that you COULD say “potty”. For a while, you
kept saying this strange word at odd intervals – it sounded like
“pie-yay”. When I finally pieced it together and said, “Oh my
gosh, are you saying POTTY?” you smiled and nodded enthusiastically (and
then gave me a look that clearly said, “Oh, Mommy, you’re so cute
when you finally get it.”) You love to say “water” when
you’re in the bath. You answer quite clearly when you’re asked how
old you are now: “TWO!” When we were all at the museum together and
you couldn’t find Aunt Janine for a moment, you called to her asking for
“Jin! Jin!” And my favourite verbal development this month is that
you can say “pit stop!” like Guido from Cars. It sounds like
“peet stop!”
You’re
doing great with the potty, sweetie. You generally manage to pee on the potty
at least once a day at home, and we couldn’t be happier. Robin’s
trying to incorporate it into her routine too. The next step is keeping that
diaper dry, and then we can switch to training pants. You’re going to do
great, whenever you’re ready.
I
worked on Family Day, but that didn’t stop us from having a few
“family days” of our own this month. At one point when Daddy was
off with you, you both came downtown to visit me at the office . We had lunch
at D’Arcy McGee’s, a special treat, and you enjoyed a real Irish
meal without a single vegetable in sight. We ended the meal with ice cream,
which was a VERY special treat indeed.
We got a very unique invitation to be part of a photo and video shoot for my work. That meant that you got to play on the snow slides at Jacques Cartier Park while the park was closed! You loved going down the slides with me, but wouldn't venture by yourself (I wasn't keen on letting you anyway). You were awesome at looking adorable - the director was madly in love with you - but less awesome at taking direction. I think our friend Sarah got some nice photos of you with her camera, though, so we'll be able to enjoy those.
You've enjoyed playing in the snow in our front yard. You have your own little snow shovel (thanks, Granny!) and we keep one of your plastic trucks nearby so it can plow the front step. We've had great outdoor fun with Uncle Mark and Aunt Janine, too. You made your first snow angel with us, and you climbed a snow mountain and slid down on your own. We've taken you to Conroy Pit on Saturday mornings, too. You and Zaphod make your way along the trail together, and he plays with other dogs and you tolerate them well. Zaphod comes back to you every few minutes to check on you and make sure you're ok, and if another dog bothers you too much, he takes care of them for you. He is still very much your doggie, and you are very much his toddler.
You had your first trip to the dentist this month. It was to take a quick peek at your chipped tooth. You didn't like the part where Dr. B. actually looked in your mouth, but you were delighted with your new toothbrush. We took you back to the allergist this month, too. You still have a mild allergy to eggs (whites and yolks), and you have also developed a peanut allergy.
We've changed our bedtime routine slightly. Instead of reading to you upstairs in your room, we take out the basket of bedtime books downstairs on the mattress on the living room and go through a few together. Sometimes you sit with me and listen attentively, looking at the pictures, and other times you elect to play with other things, but you know that when I'm done three books, it's time to go upstairs. This works a lot better than the old routine, where we'd fight our way through the books and you'd try and take them out of my hand or throw them on the floor in an effort to stall bedtime. (You still excel at stalling bedtime, but you're a bit more subtle about it now.)
It's hard not to laugh when you're angry, sweetie, and for that, I'm sorry. It's not that I don't respect your feelings, it's that you do this little stompy angry dance and gibber with rage and its reminds me of Rumpelstiltskin. But your feelings are very real to you, and we get through the meltdowns together. They tend to be more frequent now, but less intense and quicker to end.
You know your colours, and you know some numbers and letters. You love to do arts and crafts. You are parroting words all over the place. It's just wonderful to watch you develop.
Your birthday party was a huge success. We tried to keep it a reasonable size - just five other boys: Caleb and Noah, Alex and Nicholas (Robin's two youngest boys), and your buddy Koen. It was wonderful to have Robin and Mark there, and Big Noah even showed up! Your Aunt Janine and Uncle Mark were there, of course, and so were your grandmothers. Auntie Kimmy and Uncle Luc both came, and so both did Koen's parents, Aunt Jen and Uncle Albert. You were given a disgusting number of fantastic gifts, you thoroughly enjoyed your cupcakes, and you behaved remarkably well. You were overall a gracious host, and nobody had a meltdown (including Mommy), which was a miracle given the number of people in such a small space. It was a really, really lovely time and I think everyone was happy to be there celebrating with you. You also got a great birthday phone call from your Tia Reiko, which you enjoyed immensely.
And so, you're two. And you're wonderful. And we are so very happy to have you in our lives. And you find new ways everyday to melt our hearts. Keep being so fantastic. I can't wait to see what the next year brings.
